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Due to lack of interest, all events have been cancelled. If you are interested in seeing this group come back, contact us

Welcome to Gay in Kelowna!

Whether you are new to the Kelowna area or just looking to meet some new friends, we’re happy you’re here. Sometimes meeting new people is difficult and the online ‘meat meet market’…well, let’s face it – its not the best place for meeting friends.

This site is here for gay men in the Kelowna area who are looking for more active and interactive ways to meet other guys with similar interests in a friendly, causal setting. So, if you’re bored of clubs, bars and wasting your time on Grindr, why not check us out?

Get Togethers

Come join us! If you have any suggestions for activities you might like, drop us a line.

Scene Buddies

Masculinity & the Male Form

How is the male form used to form identity and as an object of desire? 3 films left!

Next – The Bromance

When is a friendship just a friendship and when is it something more? We’ll be discussing masculinity, friendship and queer subtext in mainstream Hollywood blockbusters.

Queer Cinema & readings of mainstream films

Now that we have our own cinematic voice, what stories are gay men telling and how are we portraying ourselves? Are we falling into tired stereotypes or breaking free from them – does our depiction of the male form play into those stereotypes?

How does the portrayal of the male form affect the story – how is it used and to what effect?

Scene Buddies Film Screenings

Magic Mike XXL – The Male Body as Object

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The Legend of Tarzan

Tarzan, having acclimated to life in London, is called back to his former home in the jungle to investigate the activities at a mining encampment. Is masculinity characterized as wild versus civilized?

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When his brother is killed in a robbery, paraplegic Marine Jake Sully decides to take his place in a mission on the distant world of Pandora.

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In a world of avatars, does it matter what you really look like or who you really are? What is the authentic self in a world of constructed bodies?

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Avengers: Age of Ultron

Thor, Captain America, Iron Man, The Hulk. That other guy…Does being a hero require super-muscles, meta-human powers or buff robot suit?

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